trick orrrrr treat!!

or as dude would say....."twick or tweat" :D

soooo building snowmen BEFORE hallloween??  kinnnndaaaa funny LOL  yup, we didnt get ANYwhere NEAR 10 inches (more like 2) but it was enough snow for S. and dude to make a snowman sunday morning <3  then later in the afternoon, they carved out dudes pumpkin :D  actually, dude played with the pumpkin guts, and i showed him how to shoot seeds across the room (and at daddy :P ) while S. carved the pumpkin LOL <3 then S. toasted the seeds while i made supper, and since dude is in the habit of falling asleep at the supper table lately, when we finally woke him up so S. could get him washed up and changed for bedtime, dude was very insistent that he watch "charlie brown" :D  he LOVES "the great pumpkin" movie LOL so he and daddy cuddled on the couch, it was so sweet :D

i am in the process of running the humidifier and boiling numerous pots of water, because my nose is SO dry its not EVEN funny!!  but its getting better.......talk about annoying!

k.s mom hasnt broken the good news to her about S. and i having another baby!! surprise surprise!!  the mom has known about my pregnancy for a couple of months now, but still hasnt found the "right" time to tell her daughter shes going to have a little sister??  yeahhhh okay.  we wanted to tell k. so shed have lots of time to get used to the idea, but if her mother wants to be stupid about the situation, i guess thats her call.  all i know is that when k. gets older and finds out how long her mother was lying to her, shes not going to be happy!!

oooooooohhhh   i just realized its only 2 more weeks until i go christmas shopping with mom and nana!!!  :D

and dudes birthday party is next week!!!!  :D

i CANNOT believe hes going to be 2!!!!

last night S. was rubbing my belly and talking to baby girl telling her to hurry up because we cant wait to meet her!!  <3  during supper time (while dude was sleeping LOL) we were talking about the whole labor and hospital stuff, i was telling him about my experience at the hospital with dude, and what he should expect with some things :D  hes so cute and excited!! 

yesterday was one of my last days of "working"  :D 

that show on FX, American Horror Story??  yeah, its awesome!!! 

i love coupons that let you get free stuff :)

what do i want to do after baby girl is born?  along with having my hair colored?  theres a new thai food and sushi restaurant in town.....and i want sushi...with a passion!!  i know S. feels the same LOL is that going to be our first post baby date? im thinking, yes ;)  ohhhh, and im also really excited to sleep on my stomach LOL !!!!

time to get going for the day :)  errands to run, things to do around the house, and watching jungle book numerous times with dude LOL <3

<3 <3 <3


feelin fabulous!! :D

ahhhhh the first day of deer hunting season... LOL
 guess whos already out and about??  yup, ive never seen S. get out of bed without hitting the snooze button a couple of times...but i tell you what, he did today LOL 
hes cute :D

we had my 34 week check up yesterday :D  of course everything is awesome :D  nothing too crazy we just discussed my birth plan, and S. cutting the cord :D  then after my 36 week check up i start going every week...

i made the most amaaaaaaaazing pot of chicken alfredo last night!  with spinach and mushrooms....and some homemade garlic bread ohhhhh man! you should have seen S. and dude demolish it!!!  LOL 
 i, however, can only eat a few bites of something before im full....its cool though LOL its for a good reason ;)  but what i could fit in there, along with my glass of milk, was wicked good LOL

sooooo 6 to 10 inches of snow??
that amount has risen drastically since the last time we watched the weather!! 
i still dont think well get anything......

dude is LOVING the pistol belt that we got him for his halloween costume :) 
he even draws both pistols at the same time LOL

he is also LOVing the jungle book and finding nemo recently :)  and yes, asks to watch them specifically, and will sit on the couch and watch very patiently! 
i think i found a new "babysitter" for when i want to knit LOL

i dont know what i ever did in my life to deserve someone as cool, and awesome, and smart, and handsome, and sweet, as my son......
but im sure glad that i did it

S. was telling me, that the other night after i had fallen asleep, he was laying with his hand on my belly, and baby girl was moving around like crazy :) he thought that was so cool, i mean, he feels her move around all the time, and sees it too LOL, but i think he especially liked it since i was asleep, you know?  like he got to share a private moment between just him and his daughter <3 
and i know she moves around when im sleeping, but its cool to actually KNOW it...
you know what i mean?? 
maybe that dosnt really make sense, but whatever LOL :D

i love how much patience S. has with dude <3 
hes such an amazing father :D 
he will literally read endlessly to dude, and he laughs when dude hits him on the head with his (plastic) hammer, and explains everything that hes doing....tickles him, teaches him, its just really sweet how much he obviously loves him :) 
 i know that it will be the same with our baby girl <3

allllllriight :) i guess its time to get goin, the dude is up, and its time for breakfast :)  and im going to work on a few projects that S. and i have going on :)  S.s going to be home....around lunch time? 
then i think hes going to take dude out hunting <3 

<3 <3 <3



some of the crazy things going on with our family right now? lol   lets see.......

prettttttty sure dude is cutting another of his molars

the other day dude was feeding his "baby" doll a crayon.....THAT was stopped very fast!!!  LOL!!

im 33 weeks pregnant, and i think we need to start taking dates for our pool, because i actually think this baby is going to arrive the day after thanksgiving, or right around then at least!!

ive gained 25 pounds by the way!!!!!!  alll in my belly!!!!!!!  {{S. loves it LOL ;) }} 
but im right on track, did i mention that baby girl is about 4 pounds?? 
and i gained about 30 pounds with dude so this is normal LOL

S. is pretty annoyed that the weatherman is calling for snow on thursday night,
 im not surprised about it though.... :P

whats the combined weight of our 2 cats?  hmmm maybeeeee 7 pounds?  regardless, it still sounds like a freaking herd of elephants running up and down our stairs when they start playing....this would be fine if it wasnt at 10 at night or 6 in the morning!! LOL 

im knitting my butt off :D  hellllloooooo christmas presents!! :D  well for some people....i know theres some people who probaby wouldnt even SEE the present (*ahem*.....k....) 
 i love that ravelry website that my neighbor told me about!!

we got another box of clothes for baby girl from mom in law the other day :D  noooooo, thats not the crazy part....the crazy part is how unbelievably EXCITED i am for this little girl to arrive!!  LOL  yes ive been excited all along, but now its out of CONTROL!!  the clothes are soooo cute, just like everything else weve gotten, AND MIL found some ruby slippers that match the ones i have!!!  LOL ahhhhh "matching outfit" pictures :P

other updates??

i cant help but get a kick out of people who CAN NOT make up their minds LOL

i am continuously vacuuming because of all the sawdust S. keeps tracking in after working on his lathe....the reason this isnt a problem??  because hes doing some really cool stuff on it...and im in my nesting stage and would probably be vacuuming all the time any ways LOL :P

S. and i are working on a theory......its coming along interesting... LOL 

dude is getting TALL and is speaking in sentences and frequently reads to US :D 
we cant wait to go to his 2 year check up!!

he affectionately calls our new cat (whos name is "tulah") "TUNA"  LOL how freakin cute :D 
i think thats the only reason she didnt get renamed!!  <3

i think because of the forecast of snow, im in a wicked baking mood LOL

its funny how, as kids, we never think that our parents are right. about anything.  then something happens as an adult, (or teenager), and you realize your parents WERE RIGHT.
ex.  my mom thought bag balm was disgusting even though papa swore by it, now she uses it LOL
i thought bag balm was disgusting, and realized after dude recent diaper rash (from teething) that it actually works really good.... *sigh*  :D

were very excited for halloween :D  i think im going to paint a huge flower on my belly LOL and dude is going to be the cutest sheriff EVER :D  is S. going to dress up?  hmmmmmm im not sure LOL 

im very excited to go christmas shopping with mom and nana and dude in a few weeks!!  weve been doing it since right after dude was born, so theres no reason to not do it this year :) 
of course, were doing it much EARlier since ill be ready to pop soon LOL

i guess thats all for now, you see, things arent all that crazy right now actually.....
life is perfect with our little family

<3 <3 <3


when i see your face :)

sooooo im 32 (well, almost 33 :)  weeks pregnant now, and im spending my time wondering whyyyyyyy a few weeks ago, time seemed to be flying like crazy.....but now that we actually have everything READY for baby girl, time seems to have slowed down to a craaaaaaaawwwwllllllll..... blah!!!! LOL  i guess i can actually understand it, but that dosnt make it less frustrating!!!  were so excited to meet this girl!!!! :D <3

otherwise, life is awesome!! :)  spent some time with mom and nana on sunday while S. helped dad on the addition, S. did some work on his lathe last night while i was knitting :),  i got my flu shot on friday, and even though it knocked me on my ass that night, and i could barely move my arm! i didnt have any other symptoms :) S. and dude went "hunting" on saturday...thats a funny story!!  and we did some shopping, dude got his flu shot on monday....soooo THAT was pretty rough.....but after a long nap early yesterday afternoon....he was right as rain :D 

we got our new kitten over the weekend too! :D  (and just so everyone knows, we still have galore :)  S. just reallllly wanted this kitten too LOL)  and the two cats had to have some hiss fits with each other, but now they have a weird way of playing together LOL

ive been working on thank you notes from my baby shower (yes, they ARE coming out soon LOL), cleaning/nesting, making plans with S. :), talking about christmas :D  rubbing baby girls feet so shell get them out from underneath my ribs LOL, wrapping up my last days of work, and getting hot flashes because of all this blood flow.

in addition to all of these things, ive also had to do some pretty gross laundry, AFTER S. had it soaking in the bath tub that is....because you see, when S. and dude went hunting on saturday...on their way back home, as they were literally in the backyard....dude fell into cow poop. (the people who own the land directly behind us have A LOT of cows, and S. always cuts through the pasture)  LOL im SERIOUS!!  and im not talking  "cow patty"  im talking the huge pile of cow shit that they use as fertilizer in the spring LOL  i guess he kinda just slid into it, its not like he had it on his face or anything....but according to S., as soon as it happened, dude got really upset and starting crying  "oooooohhhhh poooooooooop!!!"  LOL  so S. stripped him down in the field, wiped off his hands in the grass, put his shirt on dude, and got him to the house where as soon as dude got through the door, he started telling me.. "poop"   i thought he had pooped or something LOL nope.....god it was hysterical, my jaw was on the floor the whole time S. was telling me the story!!  so dude and S. took a shower together LOL  i WISH i had been there....dude still tells us about cow poop LOL

ive been forcing myself to do something reallllly important the past few days....when dude is taking a nap....i actually do what I want to do!! LOL  i know i know it seems sillllllyyy....and i know i should be tackling my ever growing to do list....but f*ck it.  LOL im pretty sure i wont have any time to myself in a few weeks!!  soooo the other day when dude was taking a nap....I STRAIGTENED MY HAIR *GASP*  and then got quite a few compliments on it LOL has it been THAT long since ive straightened it??  i dont think so.....anyways...i can also see the living room tv from the bathroom, so i ALSO watched days of our lives!!! *GASP*  LOL it was nice :)  and now, while dude is napping...instead of tackling those dishes? yup, im writing this blog....and i ate that piece of chocolate i was craving :P 

S. talked to k. for a while monday night, and k. talked to me and dude too :D  it was nice :)  k. asked me to make her a princess costume for halloween, because apparently shes going to be a bunny, but she dosnt seem very enthusiastic about it...and her mom told her ever so nicely that i was tooooo busy to make k. a costume LOL  am i busy? yup.  can i make a costume? yup :)  well have to see what happens ;)

now that baby girl is approximately 4 pounds.....
its seriously uncomfortable when she decides to roll over.....
 a million times a day LOL 

im already excited for tax return season :)  nothing like new tattoos with tax return money LOL

i guess thats it for nowwww :)  im going to do some more knitting while dude is still sleeping, then its time for a chiropractors appointment!! :D 


<3 <3 <3



sooooo, for the past few months now, k.s mom has been continuously changing the time AND DAY that S. can call k., sometimes sending texts the morning of, saying that she would be busy, another time, she wrote, that she would be busy alllllll weekend so S. would have to call on monday night...  BUT apparently, when S. asks for just a little lee-way...by which i mean a half hour or so....k.s mom cant handle it and shit hits the fan! LOL 

a few weeks ago, my cousins wife had a baby shower, and it was on a sunday, starting at 2, and S. is supposed to call k. between 2 and 330 on sundays....(i know right? could she narrow down the calling field any MORE? LOL)  i told S., on friday (it might have been saturday actually) that he should contact k.s mom to ask if it would be ok if he called after 4, or if it would be better if he should call k. monday night instead since k.s mom makes such a big deal about how they always have plans on sunday nights...(yup, im SUUUURE they do LOL)  k.s mom had NO PROBLEM with S. calling at a later time.  the issue was dropped.

then the next week (this would have been Oct 2nd) i had another baby shower to go to (another cousins girlfriend)  and it started attttttt.....2?  yeah it was 2 again, on sunday.  so i mentioned to S. (on saturday) that he should text k.s mom again to ask if it would be ok to call at or shortly after 4pm, or if it would be better to call on monday (just to point out to you, this is the SECOND time that S. asked for a different time to call).....this is the resulting stupid rant from k.s mom through text messaging......(texts from k.s mom will be in bold, and ours that were sent to her will be in italics....just in case its not obvious LOL and theres going to be a lot of added comments by me LOL)

4.26pm: By the way wont be able to call til 430 at the earliest.  Is that ok or should i try monday?
4.27pm: We have Mass tomorow night at 5. So Monday would be the better option.  I have an appt so she will be home with Gramma from about 330 to 530 if you would
4.27pm: like to call then.
4.29pm: If i can call earlier on sunday i will otherwise ill call on monday after (work)
4.29pm: Are you dismissing the child support case?  Or coming down for it? I need to know so I can set up a substitute for work if necessary.  (obviously we didnt answer this question LOL)
4.30pm: Well tomorrow we have church in the evening since it's the first Sunday of the month so we will be out of the house at 4...
4.32pm: Which would ordinarily work since you are supposed to call between 2 and 330....
4.34pm: It will depend on when c. gets home tomorrow if i can call before 4 i will.  Can i call after 5 30 on monday since i get home at 5?
4.37pm: It would be preferable if you called earlier on Monday, but that's fine.  Can we just plan for Monday so that I don't have to sit around and wait to see if
4.37pm: you will call or not tomorrow? It's not very fair to us.
4.37pm: Seriously last week you told me im supposed to call between 3 and 4 30.  We checked the text.  Can you please make up your mind?
4.39pm: Oh, sorry.  I thought it was 2 and 330.  I'm really stressed right now and have a lot going on.  And everything just got figured out for the family Mass that
4.39pm: I help coordinate, so it'll have to be between 2 and 330 from now on.  I apologize for misguiding you last week.
4.42pm: You seem to prefer to be around when im on the phone with K..  and (the grandmother) dosnt really let her talk.  Im not asking you to wait around the whole day
4.44pm: Lol seriously?  (right here, the only thing we were laughing at was that she was making it seem like she was stressed out about planning a Mass, honestly....this is what she came back with!! LOL)
4.49pm: I am a good mother. I am a good student.  I am a good preschool teacher.  I am a good person. (when a woman has to repeat over and over "im a good mother, im a good person" like a mantra, shes obviously trying to convince herself and the others around her, its not working on us LOL) I don't deserve anything you have thrown at me.  Be mad at me
4.50pm: for whatever ridiculous reason you've made; have at it.  But it doesn't make me less of a person or a mother or anything. So I made a mistake last week over
4.50pm: what time you're supposed to call, things happen.  Move on.  Get over it.
4.50pm: You are, though, because if you can't guarantee a call before 4 but you're going to try, I can't go anywhere until 4 without you yelling at me.  Which, by
4.50pm: the way, you do a lot for no reason. (he dosnt yell all the time by the way, only when its appropriate, and he wasnt yelling at this point, we were laughing hysterically LOL) And you yelling at me for having a life for myself and for K. is more than I can handle at this point.  I'm not your
4.50pm: personal punching bag and I'm not the bad guy in all of this.  Yes, I expect you to pay child support. Yes, i expect you to be dependable.  That's not
4.50pm: me being the bad guy.  You leaving her was being the bad guy. (how does moving on with his life make him a bad guy? k.s mom is under the impression that S. should have stayed in NC even when he got out of the Marine Corps.... the only reason she hasnt moved is because she dosnt want to pay half of the travel expenses for k. to come visit LOL)  You fighting every penny of child support is you being the bad guy. (he fights the child support because he dosnt want to pay for a stupid private catholic school!) Stop blaming me for every
4.50pm: thing and stop taking everything out on me. I'm tired of dealing with it. (he wasnt blaming her for anything in this conversation, he was asking her to make up her mind as to what time he could call every week LOL)
4.55pm: If calling between 2 and 330 doesn't work because you have to wait for Celena to get home, go get another cell phone.  This isn't fair to Kaley and I for
4.55pm: you to be asking to change the time on a weekly basis because of C. (this was only the second week he had asked to change the time because of me!! LOL)
4.57pm: Um are you serious here?? I was just laughing because you said you were stressed about planning a mass.  Thats seriously all it was.  Dont have another breakdown.
5.01pm: Wow you were changing the day AND time constantly. Im trying to be courteous and ASKING you if its ok if i change the time by an hour or so.  and C. is the
5.03pm: one who said i should ask you instead of Telling you the morning of like you do to me.  We dont need another phone its not necessary until the baby comes along
5.21pm: I'm not stressed about planning a Mass.  That's just what we have going on tomorrow evening.  I'm stressed over the 50 million other things I have going on
5.21pm: that you can't seem to understand.
5.28pm: lol ok whatever (her name here) i dont care if ur stressed but obviously you cant handle any sort of responsibility and we all know that is not good for K. to see,  (you should consider getting back on Meds)
5.28pm: It is necessary, though. You have a child HERE who you can't seem to call dependably.  (the only time that S. wasnt calling every week, at the time he was allowed to, is when k.s mom had our phone number blocked because she didnt like seeing my name come up on the caller ID LOL) And things happen between work, school and church that i can't always
5.28pm: control or that im told about last minute.  Now I have not changed it since we both settled on a day that worked for both of us.  Did I forget the time?  Yeah,
5.29pm: I'll cop to that.  But has the day been consistent for me for the last month and a half almost? (ALMOST a month and a half?? WOWWWWWWW) Yes.  Get over yourself and start to realize that you are
5,29pm: not perfect and that your life isn't perfect either.  You want it to be? Then make it happen.  Have your "perfect little family" (we think its funny that she always tries to make it seem like having the "perfect" family is a BAD thing LOL) up in _____ and forget the people who have been through it all
(i admit, i deleted some of the text messages in here from her, because it was pointless to keep them.....but she listed off all the things that happened between her and S. in HIGH SCHOOL!! LOL)
5.33pm: How can I not handle responsibility? I am at work on time, everyday, with K. fed, bathed, dressed and looking respectable.  I handle 14 preschoolers,
5.33pm: the yearbook, the newspaper, and substitute in other grades for 8 hours everyday.  I help K. with her homework and we work on her reading.  She has dinner,
5.33pm: I read her books, she goes to bed.  I am also an A student in every course I have taken this term.  I have almost completed 24 units. I am a co-director
5.33pm: for the youth choir at church and helping with Faith Formation as much as possible. How does any of that exhibit irresponsibility? (this chick obviously has wayyyyy too much stuff on her plate if all she can do is complain about it to her EX HUSBAND and tell him about it like shes trying to prove something to him LOL)
5.37pm: I didnt say you were irresponsible i said you cant handle shit since youre obviously going out of ur mind right now go have a drink lol and i left all of that
5.38pm: stupid high school drama behind a long time ago you should too. At least talk to your shrink about it not to me
5.56pm: I don't have any high school drama.  And I can handle it perfectly well.  What I can't handle is your arrogance and belief that you are entitled.  You aren't entitled
5.56pm: to anything but your one call a week and visitation if you can fund it.  Have a good evening.
6.00pm: Look.  I was trying to be nice way to go being all Fucking psycho for no reason.  We were fine on the phone last sunday, we havent fought during the week, i know
6.01pm: C. hasnt written anything lately
(more deleted messages, but we told her to go take a midol LOL)
6.02pm: I didn't go pyscho, S.  You did.  All because I forgot what times and had to change it due to circumstances which changed this week. I am sorry for not
6.02pm: notifying you the second it happened, it slipped my mind due to other things which were more pressing and important.  Good night, we will hear from you on
(another text i deleted....she said "monday :)  yes im serious about the smiley face LOL)
6.03pm: I'm normal, S. I'm a normal person who just happens to be stressed right now.  At least I'm not screaming my head off at you and threatening to beat
6.03pm: a child like you did. So who exactly is the better person? (S. didnt scream his head off, or threaten to beat k., he was disgusted  by the way she was talking on the phone one night, and said that he would smack her if she spoke like that to him in person......im very sure that MANY people would feel that same way if they had heard the things that k. was saying and how she was acting, its disappointing that shes picking up such a ridiculously snotty attitude from her mother)
6.04pm: I'm not having a breakdown, by the way. You're the one with finacial problems and way too much responsibility. I would understand if you had one. Good
(another deleted text.....she wrote "night"  and yes im sure there was another smiley face LOL)
6.05pm: lol ok (name here) whatever :)
6.07pm: Im not having a breakdown :) i dont have financial problems :) think what you would like :) good night
(obviously all those smiley faces were thrown in because she had kept putting them  in her messages to us LOL does she think it will help LOL i love it when she does it, it makes me laugh!! :D)

and heres the kicker that makes this even funnier.....I was the one sending all these texts to k.s mom while S. was cooking supper :D  of course i was reading them to him, and he had some input as to what i should say back....but yeah, it was me LMAO!!

here i am still laughing about the fact that she thinks S. should be having a breakdown :D  does she think that hes stressed about having another baby with me?? NOPE!!!  hes so excited and happy :D  she CANNOT move on from the fact that S. is happy with me, but thats her own problem :) 

heres what i say about it, yes k. and her mom have a life, we get that....but what k.s mom cant seem to get through her head, is that S., and I, and Dude, and soon our BABY GIRL have a life HERE...why should WE constantly make OUR PLANS work around whatever time k.s mom says S. can call that day??  why is it such a hard thing to grant S. a little bit of lee-way by a half hour or so when he can call k.???  we even called k. from the FAIR a few weeks ago!!  we even call her during our family supper time!!!  because its what fits in with k.s moms schedule!!  its really sad that shes so childish and that all she ever does is think about herself and what she has planned for that night LOL :D 

another thing that S. and i keep laughing about??  k.s mom seems to think that shes the ONLY person in the whole wide world that can CHANGE!!!  (not that she has, but thats besides the point)  she goes on and on about how awesome she is and all of the "great" things that shes doing.....yet she still accuses S. of drinking all the time, she accuses him of ridiculous things all the time, claims that he used to beat her and k. (which is hysterical, because S. has NEVER laid a hand on me or dude LOL)  MAYYYYYBEEEE she should consider the fact that S. IS HAPPY!!!!   he loves me and dude and our baby and our life together!!  he works hard, dosnt drink every night, (and when he does drink, he has a couple beers) and is an awesome father :D 

meanwhile, k.s mom is continuously dating a new guy, partying all the time (which she and her grandmother completely deny LOL) and filling up her time with so many other things, that im pretty sure she never sees k.....her grandmother is the one that always reads to k. and puts her to bed....but whatever! :) 

you know what i say when people tell me im a good mom?  "i try"  with a smile and a shrug :)

i know im a good mom, i dont have to continuously tell other people that i am, or try to validate who i am, or what i do!!!  LOL

k.s mom is always going on about how other people tell her how good of a job shes doing with k., and that she (the mom) is respected in the community....yeah, last winter, when she was having k. tested for ADHD, she (the mom) told us that k. was the only bad kid in her class and was constantly acting out....and when k. is on the phone with S., she is, 90% of the time, snotty and disrepectful.  but hey, if k.s mom thinks shes doing a good job, well she can think what she wants LOL!!!



yeah, i bet a lot of you got kinda shocked there for a second didnt you?? LOL 

mom threw me a surprise baby shower yesterday!!!!!  S.s been keeping the secret for a month now, and his job was to get me to mom and dads, i was genuinely surprised!!  LOL  it was so awesome to see everyone, ive never had a surprise party before, and yes, i cried a little LOL  we got so many awesome things! everyone got us such cute things for our little girl!!! 
i dont know if ive been this excited to do laundry since dudes baby shower LOL

hmmmm what else has been going on...it HAS been a few weeks since ive written....

were getting another kitten :D 
S. just HAD to get her LOL so probably later this week shell be the new addition to the family :)
S.s so funny <3

the other night S. was laying on the couch with his head on my belly, and baby girl totally kicked him in the head a few times LOL  it was hysterical!!  he was so freaked out but thought that it was so cool that she had done that!!  he kept trying to make her do it again :D 
hes so cute <3

we have an utrasound appointment on friday!! 
can. not. wait!!!

its fun talking about christmas presents at the supper table

dude is as cute as ever

he literally repeats everything, is recognizing and naming letters, is speaking in full sentences, and keeps kissing his baby sister

im almost done with work!!

the other week S. was texting with k.s mom to ask about calling k. at a different time, and she (the mom) flipped shit on S....it was hysterical!!  apparently shes soooooo stressed out by life and totally told S. all about it like he cares or something...yeah, he dosnt care
its her own fault that shes "taken on so much". 
but maybe if she didnt spend so much time partying she wouldnt be so stressed?  hmmmmmm LOL 
im pretty sure that im going to type up that text convo for a blog because it was seriously so funny LOL 

and a side note, we (S. and i) think its funny that for some reason, k.s mom thinks that were soooo financially strapped......she should really try to understand something.....does S. complain about the amount of child support hes paying?  yup, yes he does......why?  its not because we cant pay it!! ;)  its because he thinks its absolutely ridiculous he should be paying for that ridiculous private catholic school that k. is in, that he in no way whatsoever agreed to (even though it says in the seperation agreement that he and k.s mom are supposed to decide those kind of important things together).  THATS why he hates paying so much money. 
but maybe shed realize that if she actually paid attention instead of focusing on herself and her past with S. LOL

the other night, S. and dude spent about a half hour on the living room floor coloring <3 
seriously, S. was coloring <3 
they looked so cute together <3 
what an awesome dad :D

oh and im 31 weeks now...
im hoping these next 9 weeks flyyyy by!!! 
but i do have the feeling that baby girl will come early, since dude was a week early :) 
with the way shes stretching out trying to make more room in there, i get the feeling shes going to be an impatient one LOL 

i am so unbelievably happy, and content, and our family is awesome,
and its only going to get better!!!